1GoldenBear New part 10 furology 101-Answers why I'm a Daddy

Part 10
1GoldenBear shares thoughts on :
Why am I a “Daddy”? all examples are about role play only with Adults 1 years and up. I do not support incest or sexual interest in children.

1.Ownership.
It’s not about ‘property’ or being an ‘object’. Being Owned by Daddy is being where you are in a state of bliss because you belong there. You were made to be there, but never forced. It’s your joy to be appreciated by such a figure in your life, and Daddy’s ownership never changes. You’ll always be HIS boy. When I choose a boy to be my son, he should feel honored beyond measure.
I am not some ‘Any Boy will do’ Daddy. I only choose the best, one in a hundred, gets that pleasure because I choose them to be so. The whole world may knock on my door on their knees, but you and you alone are my son, the only one in the world. Everything that it means to be a boy and a Daddy it’s moments like these.
It’s more than tenderness, more than affection. it’s in a kind of safety that truly can only be called ‘home’. There you are safe, protected, truly appreciated for who you are. As a Daddy I am a thousand things for my boy but the only reward I ever need is right here. I get a boy who melts into his happy place. I get quiet noises, little contented sounds, and whispered ‘love you Daddy’. All the sex in the world cannot balance against even one of these moments. What do I get out of being a “Daddy”?

2: Truth
.The biggest difference, aside from the way we play, between a ‘vanilla’ romance and one that is between a Daddy and a boy is Truth. You can be honest, forthcoming and truthful with a partner in a vanilla relationship but it is different between my boy and I. There are no filters, no need to carefully phrase or edit our thoughts.
He doesn’t have to pretend to be anyone around me, I know he’s my boy and he knows it, without question that I am HIS Daddy. There is a depth of honesty within ourselves that leads to the Truth being a cornerstone of the life we’ve built together. I am my truest self with him, from cuddly Daddy bear to rough Dom Daddy; I can change, be different from moment to moment, and he will always know where he stands with me. He has that same freedom: to grow, to change as he needs and to be himself in whatever form that takes.

3: Honesty.
It can be easy to forget just how much fun it is to be ‘kinky’ when there aren’t rules beyond what feels good to enjoy each other. There’s a smile when he asks for what he wants to happen, almost shy, more than a little sexy and definitely impish: it says this is naughty and I love it.
That honesty, about sexual desire and how you want to play it out, is a real joy. No need to hide things away, just share them and let them out into the open. “Spank me Daddy” doesn’t get me hard because I like spanking him. It turns me on to feel his body come alive when he’s being ‘naughty’, horny and happy.



4: Freedom.
I don’t need to control him. The need for power isn’t something I feel nor would seek to satisfy if i did. My pleasure isn’t rooted in a need to control or dominate another person. I use those things as tools, toys in my chest of secrets, to unlock pleasure in my boy and he loves it when I am that way with him. My own arousal comes from feeling him break inside, the incredible release of his true self being able to come out into a safe place and to be happy without fear. It is his freedom to be himself, in an unconditional way, that is part of what makes a Dad/son different from being “lovers”.

5: Belonging
For a boy it’s different when it’s your boyfriend or partner or lover. When it’s your Daddy there is an entirely different feeling. He could be yours 24/7/365 or just for a few hours on the weekend, but that doesn’t change this feeling you get that he’s always been there and always will. For me it’s the same idea. There is a sense of continuation, of what I am being part of him. His place in my life is like my left hand: I’d be lost without it. He knows that what I love about him doesn’t age, gain weight or diminish with time.
I love the ultra-boy within him, the one I’ve seen him grow to become. In return he loves the Daddy that calls him ‘His’. Call it ownership, possession or any other word you want, but it comes down to the solid fit when two pieces lock together making a whole. That is the belonging that a Daddy and his boy feel together.
#5: Power
I don’t mean the cheap thrill of throwing someone around that a bully gets. I mean the real power a True Master, Dominant and Daddy’s Masculine prerogative. The day to day life of studies, work or just dealing with people, can grind you down and make you feel less than you should but as Daddy, I can bring that to an end with just a few simple words.
It doesn’t happen immediately but slowly over time my words become a power to rip that world apart. I can make it all go away and stay away for as long as you are in my arms or presence. They become nothing more than shadows trying to push into the spotlight I shine on my boy. Being able to banish those things, to allow my son to emerge and be himself, is the power that I wield. A lover can make you forget but Daddy drives them away as easily as the monster under the bed.

#6 Being his Beast.
The same thing that guides, nurtures and frees him also protects him. To him I am a juggernaut, a force of nature and an unholy terror to anything that would threaten to harm him. I’m the thing that steps out of their nightmares and reduces them to a simpering child crying for mommy.
He knows that I would never raise my hand in anger; my weapon of choice can’t be blocked by armor of any kind because I exercise my vital powers as a Daddy. Being the monster that loves him, picks him up and carries him to bed to hold him until he sleeps, is part of what being Daddy is for a boy. I don’t ever have to do anything like that.
I may never have to leap into action, but he knows in his heart that Daddy would do anything to keep him safe. He’s right on all three counts. I would do anything to protect him, I am his Hairy Beast, and I do belong to him just as he belongs to me and that I don’t let people hurt what’s mine.
#7 Daddy is home.
None of this is bound to a bedroom, dungeon or playroom. When he is with me, no matter where it is, he is home. Everything I am in our house, I am for him when we are together out in the world. I can kiss it and make it better or scare the monsters away with my roar. He’s safe, he’s happy, he’s himself. It could be in the gutter surrounded by cardboard or in a mansion on a hill; the only thing that matters is that he is there with me. He can walk beside me, stand behind me, or lead me to where he wants to go. When Daddy is with him wherever he wants to be is safe and he feels secure there.
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In no other context in my life have these been true the way they are between Daddy and his boy. It’s almost like becoming the archetypes, the purest expression of the very idea of what Daddy and son are. He’s my successor, my legacy and my joy. I’m his guardian, his teddy bear and the gardener that helps him grow. I am Daddy and he is my boy. At the end of the Day that is all that matters.




Three things that drive me insane:
First off: My Neck Fur. (Fur Collar)
I have to trust you, tremendously, to allow you near there and I will bring a boy to my neck so he can whimper close to THE most masculine virility sign you can show in public my Golden tuff of Fur popp’n up over the top of my Dad t-shirt, or press him to it so that he can put his lips on the Fur, as he whimpers and get weak knees. The warmth and sensation encourage me but only by my will should it be done. It’s a ‘thing’ that ads to the permission/depth of trust of a moment. Remember This spot (Fur Collar) is the number one spot you search to see if a Man is REALLY Hairy.
Even one or two Hairs could indicate a Furry Fellow (it usually is an accurate measure of Hairiness.)The other spots, of course, are Hairy Arms, Hairy Eye brows, Legs if He’s in shorts. Let’s not forget Hairy wrists that only a sneaky connoisseur in the search for nearest Hairy Male would notice. It’s an instant boner when I see a guy with Hairy wrists.
Second: Auditory Comments. When I ready to blow my Man load, my boy will verbally admire his Dad’s strength and Fur growth. For example he may tell me Oh Daddy you’re so strong or Daddy you’re the Man- got lots of Hair on your Chest, Arms Hairy Legs ( pick one or more (SMILE), just look at you, super Hairy! I do like hearing what my boy likes about his Dad-
Third: My Ear.
A lite sucking/kiss, but mostly hearing the his ragged breath and moan close to me is a major turn on. Once more however: simply due to the way things work, I put you there by holding your head close to mine. There’s many reasons why, but the biggest is while cradling a boy to bring him as close as possible so he feels as much skin to skin contact as I can manage as well as feel how strong I am because it helps him feel safe and that encourages the ‘real moan’ to escape his lips. Pulling him to my ear and then demanding he say what he wants, as he cums, is one of those moments I savor because of the conflict it arouses within him and the reward of the moments when he pushes through and emerges from his shell. It could be as simple as a cry out loud of “Oh DAD my
DAD”! … Dad . . . . Then his melt down as I hold him. Giving all powerful Masculine Virility “energetic” as he whimpers holding on to his Hairy Dad – if ya haven’t done it, there’s nothing like it. BTW almost all subs are subject to this sex play fantasy.
More to come soon. contact me: mgp17438@gmail.com

HE writes back::HEY- I love to give you a "Standing Ovation" as mentioned in your Blog. part one.
Look it up, read and imagine me doing THAT! - to you. As you SLOWLY JO for 45 minutes!WOOF!

I have always wanted to play with a Bear with Black Hair, like you have. I'd spend hours worshiping you Manly Fur. it would give you one of the biggest intense loads you have ever experienced. Please , if you have never had it done to you, it is completely safe I'd LOVE for you to teach some smooth skinned Son/Boy how to service you, and write me how he LOVED doing you. IT might tickle a bit at first but keep your hand on your cock at all times and the "Tickle" will turn into a feeling and awakening of awesome man power as the smooth guy "drinks in" your Manliness.You don't HAVE to prove your maleness, but it WILL put you in touch of appreciation of your own Hairiness, so that you could have a Hairy Orgasmic "Standing Ovation" ,then blow you big Hairy load over your furry stomach and make him eat it off saying "Thank you Daddy" .

Give him the "milkshake" he needs to find his own manpower that he energetically receives from you.

And good God! I wish I could do this to you. I usually top but in YOUR case I make any exception you wanted. PS> I've NEVER been fucked, but the feel of your hairy chest on my back would drive me NUTS! I'd love to have you on top of me, your Furry arms wrapped around my neck, and I'd lick the Fur on your forearms as you cum, I"d reach up to feel your Fur covered Biceps.

Mike
m g p 1 7 4 3 8 @ g m a i l . c o m

if you have any extra photos I'd be honored to beat off to them good buddy PPS: of course, if this is not to your liking, I'm known as an awesome top dog Dad who KNOWS what what he wants and has guys waiting in line to do it with the "RARE Hairy Blond High School Coach"

A handsome Boy! 18 years old

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My sex ad-

Looking to meet and chat with guys in the southern Cal area-

Ever thought of having sex with a Hairy Blond Dad 17"arms or Coach?.

I am a dominate other Dad and teach What the boys/Sons/Lads want unconsciously is the love and PHYSICAL closeness of the Male role model- This can be true at any age level, So a submissive attitude works, bottoms, desire to imbibe the MANLINESS of Dad. Usually by the Son who wishes he will grow up into the Man image of his Father, someday, Ultimately. This is true even if only in his own mind.

I myself get off on the kid admiring my Blond Hairy muscles on a Dad body-adding to my own sense of manly power.Looking down at my Boy's face, as he plays with his wiener, like I taught him. If my boy/partner wants to get lost and relish he face in his Dad's Man Fur, I'm the Dad that can do that for you.

If you are Hairy Dad/Bear I invite you to experience this kind pleasure. I share /teach these Fur sensitizing techniques.

The point I wanted to make with you- was if you like Hairy guys, YOU might consider using some of the techniques offered, to Dads/men of your choice.

NOTE: Most hairy guys don't even know the extreme light oral nibbling and touching/stroking increases the intensity of their orgasm.

Anyway, at least you'll learn a whole new level of awareness of the power of man Fur. I'm Non smoking, you be too.

I believe that a Dominate real man needs to be worthy of a boy, more so than the other way around. Your submission is your gift to give and there will be a mutual exchange.
if you lik'em Hairy I'm the Dad for you.

Hairy Blonds like Me, are rare and hard to find -Most are smooth, as you must have noticed .

Let me know more after reading the Blog-

Smooth Guys, Short guys 5'7 or less -Go to the front of the line.

Hairy Bears that want to JO with A Ginger/Blond Bear, and learn this new technique of Fur sensitizing, go to the Front of the line too-

I'm a friendly, horny Muscle Bear looking for sexual enjoyment. Love playing Daddy with hot guys 18 years and up - and I love playing with other Dads. Must have clear face pic - or no response.

Read my Blog to see what you can experience. I'd be Glad to teach you all the techniques in FUROLOGY 101. My blog please read it. Blog/article FUROLOGY 101 on this site! Or at the top of my profile page Look for a TAB that says BLOG in blue letters click- learn what FUROLOGY 101 can do for Sons/Boys/Lads ans Hairy Bears too(SMILE)

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Part 10
1GoldenBear shares thoughts on :
Why am I a “Daddy”?
Ownership. It’s not about ‘property’ or being an ‘object’. Being Owned by Daddy is being where you are in a state of bliss because you belong there. You were made to be there, but never forced. It’s your joy to be appreciated by such a figure in your life, and Daddy’s ownership never changes. You’ll always be HIS boy. When I choose a boy to be my son, he should feel honored beyond measure.
I am not some ‘Any Boy will do’ Daddy. I only choose the best, one in a hundred, gets that pleasure because I choose them to be so. The whole world may knock on my door on their knees, but you and you alone are my son, the only one in the world. Everything that it means to be a boy and a Daddy it’s moments like these.
It’s more than tenderness, more than affection. it’s in a kind of safety that truly can only be called ‘home’. There you are safe, protected, truly appreciated for who you are. As a Daddy I am a thousand things for my boy but the only reward I ever need is right here. I get a boy who melts into his happy place. I get quiet noises, little contented sounds, and whispered ‘love you Daddy’. All the sex in the world cannot balance against even one of these moments. What do I get out of being a “Daddy”?
1: Truth.

The biggest difference, aside from the way we play, between a ‘vanilla’ romance and one that is between a Daddy and a boy is Truth. You can be honest, forthcoming and truthful with a partner in a vanilla relationship but it is different between my boy and I. There are no filters, no need to carefully phrase or edit our thoughts.
He doesn’t have to pretend to be anyone around me, I know he’s my boy and he knows it, without question that I am HIS Daddy. There is a depth of honesty within ourselves that leads to the Truth being a cornerstone of the life we’ve built together. I am my truest self with him, from cuddly Daddy bear to rough Dom Daddy; I can change, be different from moment to moment, and he will always know where he stands with me. He has that same freedom: to grow, to change as he needs and to be himself in whatever form that takes.

2: Honesty.

It can be easy to forget just how much fun it is to be ‘kinky’ when there aren’t rules beyond what feels good to enjoy each other. There’s a smile when he asks for what he wants to happen, almost shy, more than a little sexy and definitely impish: it says this is naughty and I love it.
That honesty, about sexual desire and how you want to play it out, is a real joy. No need to hide things away, just share them and let them out into the open. “Spank me Daddy” doesn’t get me hard because I like spanking him. It turns me on to feel his body come alive when he’s being ‘naughty’, horny and happy.



3: Freedom.
I don’t need to control him. The need for power isn’t something I feel nor would seek to satisfy if i did. My pleasure isn’t rooted in a need to control or dominate another person. I use those things as tools, toys in my chest of secrets, to unlock pleasure in my boy and he loves it when I am that way with him. My own arousal comes from feeling him break inside, the incredible release of his true self being able to come out into a safe place and to be happy without fear. It is his freedom to be himself, in an unconditional way, that is part of what makes a Dad/son different from being “lovers”.

4: Belonging

For a boy it’s different when it’s your boyfriend or partner or lover. When it’s your Daddy there is an entirely different feeling. He could be yours 24/7/365 or just for a few hours on the weekend, but that doesn’t change this feeling you get that he’s always been there and always will. For me it’s the same idea. There is a sense of continuation, of what I am being part of him. His place in my life is like my left hand: I’d be lost without it. He knows that what I love about him doesn’t age, gain weight or diminish with time.
I love the ultra-boy within him, the one I’ve seen him grow to become. In return he loves the Daddy that calls him ‘His’. Call it ownership, possession or any other word you want, but it comes down to the solid fit when two pieces lock together making a whole. That is the belonging that a Daddy and his boy feel together.
#5: Power

I don’t mean the cheap thrill of throwing someone around that a bully gets. I mean the real power a True Master, Dominant and Daddy’s Masculine prerogative. The day to day life of studies, work or just dealing with people, can grind you down and make you feel less than you should but as Daddy, I can bring that to an end with just a few simple words.
It doesn’t happen immediately but slowly over time my words become a power to rip that world apart. I can make it all go away and stay away for as long as you are in my arms or presence. They become nothing more than shadows trying to push into the spotlight I shine on my boy. Being able to banish those things, to allow my son to emerge and be himself, is the power that I wield. A lover can make you forget but Daddy drives them away as easily as the monster under the bed.

#6 Being his Beast.

The same thing that guides, nurtures and frees him also protects him. To him I am a juggernaut, a force of nature and an unholy terror to anything that would threaten to harm him. I’m the thing that steps out of their nightmares and reduces them to a simpering child crying for mommy.
He knows that I would never raise my hand in anger; my weapon of choice can’t be blocked by armor of any kind because I exercise my vital powers as a Daddy. Being the monster that loves him, picks him up and carries him to bed to hold him until he sleeps, is part of what being Daddy is for a boy. I don’t ever have to do anything like that.
I may never have to leap into action, but he knows in his heart that Daddy would do anything to keep him safe. He’s right on all three counts. I would do anything to protect him, I am his Hairy Beast, and I do belong to him just as he belongs to me and that I don’t let people hurt what’s mine.
#7 Daddy is home.

None of this is bound to a bedroom, dungeon or playroom. When he is with me, no matter where it is, he is home. Everything I am in our house, I am for him when we are together out in the world. I can kiss it and make it better or scare the monsters away with my roar. He’s safe, he’s happy, he’s himself. It could be in the gutter surrounded by cardboard or in a mansion on a hill; the only thing that matters is that he is there with me. He can walk beside me, stand behind me, or lead me to where he wants to go. When Daddy is with him wherever he wants to be is safe and he feels secure there.
________________________________________
In no other context in my life have these been true the way they are between Daddy and his boy. It’s almost like becoming the archetypes, the purest expression of the very idea of what Daddy and son are. He’s my successor, my legacy and my joy. I’m his guardian, his teddy bear and the gardener that helps him grow. I am Daddy and he is my boy. At the end of the Day that is all that matters.




Three things that drive me insane:
First off: My Neck Fur. (Fur Collar)
I have to trust you, tremendously, to allow you near there and I will bring a boy to my neck so he can whimper close to THE most masculine virility sign you can show in public my Golden tuff of Fur popp’n up over the top of my Dad t-shirt, or press him to it so that he can put his lips on the Fur, as he whimpers and get weak knees. The warmth and sensation encourage me but only by my will should it be done. It’s a ‘thing’ that ads to the permission/depth of trust of a moment. Remember This spot (Fur Collar) is the number one spot you search to see if a Man is REALLY Hairy.
Even one or two Hairs could indicate a Furry Fellow (it usually is an accurate measure of Hairiness.)The other spots, of course, are Hairy Arms, Hairy Eye brows, Legs if He’s in shorts. Let’s not forget Hairy wrists that only a sneaky connoisseur in the search for nearest Hairy Male would notice. It’s an instant boner when I see a guy with Hairy wrists.
Second: Auditory Comments. When I ready to blow my Man load, my boy will verbally admire his Dad’s strength and Fur growth. For example he may tell me Oh Daddy you’re so strong or Daddy you’re the Man- got lots of Hair on your Chest, Arms Hairy Legs ( pick one or more (SMILE), just look at you, super Hairy! I do like hearing what my boy likes about his Dad-
Third: My Ear.
A lite sucking/kiss, but mostly hearing the his ragged breath and moan close to me is a major turn on. Once more however: simply due to the way things work, I put you there by holding your head close to mine. There’s many reasons why, but the biggest is while cradling a boy to bring him as close as possible so he feels as much skin to skin contact as I can manage as well as feel how strong I am because it helps him feel safe and that encourages the ‘real moan’ to escape his lips. Pulling him to my ear and then demanding he say what he wants, as he cums, is one of those moments I savor because of the conflict it arouses within him and the reward of the moments when he pushes through and emerges from his shell. It could be as simple as a cry out loud of “Oh DAD my
DAD”! … Dad . . . . Then his melt down as I hold him. Giving all powerful Masculine Virility “energetic” as he whimpers holding on to his Hairy Dad – if ya haven’t done it, there’s nothing like it. BTW almost all subs are subject to this sex play fantasy.
More to come soon. contact me: mgp17438@gmail.com
HE writes back::HEY- I love to give you a "Standing Ovation" as mentioned in your Blog. part one.
Look it up, read and imagine me doing THAT! - to you. As you SLOWLY JO for 45 minutes!WOOF!

I have always wanted to play with a Bear with Black Hair, like you have. I'd spend hours worshiping you Manly Fur. it would give you one of the biggest intense loads you have ever experienced. Please , if you have never had it done to you, it is completely safe I'd LOVE for you to teach some smooth skinned Son/Boy how to service you, and write me how he LOVED doing you. IT might tickle a bit at first but keep your hand on your cock at all times and the "Tickle" will turn into a feeling and awakening of awesome man power as the smooth guy "drinks in" your Manliness.You don't HAVE to prove your maleness, but it WILL put you in touch of appreciation of your own Hairiness, so that you could have a Hairy Orgasmic "Standing Ovation" ,then blow you big Hairy load over your furry stomach and make him eat it off saying "Thank you Daddy" .

Give him the "milkshake" he needs to find his own manpower that he energetically receives from you.

And good God! I wish I could do this to you. I usually top but in YOUR case I make any exception you wanted. PS> I've NEVER been fucked, but the feel of your hairy chest on my back would drive me NUTS! I'd love to have you on top of me, your Furry arms wrapped around my neck, and I'd lick the Fur on your forearms as you cum, I"d reach up to feel your Fur covered Biceps.

Mike
m g p 1 7 4 3 8 @ g m a i l . c o m

if you have any extra photos I'd be honored to beat off to them good buddy PPS: of course, if this is not to your liking, I'm known as an awesome top dog Dad who KNOWS what what he wants and has guys waiting in line to do it with the "RARE Hairy Blond High School Coach"

A handsome Boy! 18 years old

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
My sex ad-

Looking to meet and chat with guys in the southern Cal area-

Ever thought of having sex with a Hairy Blond Dad 17"arms or Coach?.

I am a dominate other Dad and teach What the boys/Sons/Lads want unconsciously is the love and PHYSICAL closeness of the Male role model- This can be true at any age level, So a submissive attitude works, bottoms, desire to imbibe the MANLINESS of Dad. Usually by the Son who wishes he will grow up into the Man image of his Father, someday, Ultimately. This is true even if only in his own mind.

I myself get off on the kid admiring my Blond Hairy muscles on a Dad body-adding to my own sense of manly power.Looking down at my Boy's face, as he plays with his wiener, like I taught him. If my boy/partner wants to get lost and relish he face in his Dad's Man Fur, I'm the Dad that can do that for you.

If you are Hairy Dad/Bear I invite you to experience this kind pleasure. I share /teach these Fur sensitizing techniques.

The point I wanted to make with you- was if you like Hairy guys, YOU might consider using some of the techniques offered, to Dads/men of your choice.

NOTE: Most hairy guys don't even know the extreme light oral nibbling and touching/stroking increases the intensity of their orgasm.

Anyway, at least you'll learn a whole new level of awareness of the power of man Fur. I'm Non smoking, you be too.

I believe that a Dominate real man needs to be worthy of a boy, more so than the other way around. Your submission is your gift to give and there will be a mutual exchange.
if you lik'em Hairy I'm the Dad for you.

Hairy Blonds like Me, are rare and hard to find -Most are smooth, as you must have noticed .

Let me know more after reading the Blog-

Smooth Guys, Short guys 5'7 or less -Go to the front of the line.

Hairy Bears that want to JO with A Ginger/Blond Bear, and learn this new technique of Fur sensitizing, go to the Front of the line too-

I'm a friendly, horny Muscle Bear looking for sexual enjoyment. Love playing Daddy with hot guys 18 years and up - and I love playing with other Dads. Must have clear face pic - or no response.

Read my Blog to see what you can experience. I'd be Glad to teach you all the techniques in FUROLOGY 101. My blog please read it. Blog/article FUROLOGY 101 on this site! Or at the top of my profile page Look for a TAB that says BLOG in blue letters click- learn what FUROLOGY 101 can do for Sons/Boys/Lads ans Hairy Bears too(SMILE)

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Part 10
1GoldenBear shares thoughts on :
Why am I a “Daddy”?
Ownership. It’s not about ‘property’ or being an ‘object’. Being Owned by Daddy is being where you are in a state of bliss because you belong there. You were made to be there, but never forced. It’s your joy to be appreciated by such a figure in your life, and Daddy’s ownership never changes. You’ll always be HIS boy. When I choose a boy to be my son, he should feel honored beyond measure.
I am not some ‘Any Boy will do’ Daddy. I only choose the best, one in a hundred, gets that pleasure because I choose them to be so. The whole world may knock on my door on their knees, but you and you alone are my son, the only one in the world. Everything that it means to be a boy and a Daddy it’s moments like these.
It’s more than tenderness, more than affection. it’s in a kind of safety that truly can only be called ‘home’. There you are safe, protected, truly appreciated for who you are. As a Daddy I am a thousand things for my boy but the only reward I ever need is right here. I get a boy who melts into his happy place. I get quiet noises, little contented sounds, and whispered ‘love you Daddy’. All the sex in the world cannot balance against even one of these moments. What do I get out of being a “Daddy”?
1: Truth.

The biggest difference, aside from the way we play, between a ‘vanilla’ romance and one that is between a Daddy and a boy is Truth. You can be honest, forthcoming and truthful with a partner in a vanilla relationship but it is different between my boy and I. There are no filters, no need to carefully phrase or edit our thoughts.
He doesn’t have to pretend to be anyone around me, I know he’s my boy and he knows it, without question that I am HIS Daddy. There is a depth of honesty within ourselves that leads to the Truth being a cornerstone of the life we’ve built together. I am my truest self with him, from cuddly Daddy bear to rough Dom Daddy; I can change, be different from moment to moment, and he will always know where he stands with me. He has that same freedom: to grow, to change as he needs and to be himself in whatever form that takes.

2: Honesty.

It can be easy to forget just how much fun it is to be ‘kinky’ when there aren’t rules beyond what feels good to enjoy each other. There’s a smile when he asks for what he wants to happen, almost shy, more than a little sexy and definitely impish: it says this is naughty and I love it.
That honesty, about sexual desire and how you want to play it out, is a real joy. No need to hide things away, just share them and let them out into the open. “Spank me Daddy” doesn’t get me hard because I like spanking him. It turns me on to feel his body come alive when he’s being ‘naughty’, horny and happy.



3: Freedom.
I don’t need to control him. The need for power isn’t something I feel nor would seek to satisfy if i did. My pleasure isn’t rooted in a need to control or dominate another person. I use those things as tools, toys in my chest of secrets, to unlock pleasure in my boy and he loves it when I am that way with him. My own arousal comes from feeling him break inside, the incredible release of his true self being able to come out into a safe place and to be happy without fear. It is his freedom to be himself, in an unconditional way, that is part of what makes a Dad/son different from being “lovers”.

4: Belonging

For a boy it’s different when it’s your boyfriend or partner or lover. When it’s your Daddy there is an entirely different feeling. He could be yours 24/7/365 or just for a few hours on the weekend, but that doesn’t change this feeling you get that he’s always been there and always will. For me it’s the same idea. There is a sense of continuation, of what I am being part of him. His place in my life is like my left hand: I’d be lost without it. He knows that what I love about him doesn’t age, gain weight or diminish with time.
I love the ultra-boy within him, the one I’ve seen him grow to become. In return he loves the Daddy that calls him ‘His’. Call it ownership, possession or any other word you want, but it comes down to the solid fit when two pieces lock together making a whole. That is the belonging that a Daddy and his boy feel together.
#5: Power

I don’t mean the cheap thrill of throwing someone around that a bully gets. I mean the real power a True Master, Dominant and Daddy’s Masculine prerogative. The day to day life of studies, work or just dealing with people, can grind you down and make you feel less than you should but as Daddy, I can bring that to an end with just a few simple words.
It doesn’t happen immediately but slowly over time my words become a power to rip that world apart. I can make it all go away and stay away for as long as you are in my arms or presence. They become nothing more than shadows trying to push into the spotlight I shine on my boy. Being able to banish those things, to allow my son to emerge and be himself, is the power that I wield. A lover can make you forget but Daddy drives them away as easily as the monster under the bed.

#6 Being his Beast.

The same thing that guides, nurtures and frees him also protects him. To him I am a juggernaut, a force of nature and an unholy terror to anything that would threaten to harm him. I’m the thing that steps out of their nightmares and reduces them to a simpering child crying for mommy.
He knows that I would never raise my hand in anger; my weapon of choice can’t be blocked by armor of any kind because I exercise my vital powers as a Daddy. Being the monster that loves him, picks him up and carries him to bed to hold him until he sleeps, is part of what being Daddy is for a boy. I don’t ever have to do anything like that.
I may never have to leap into action, but he knows in his heart that Daddy would do anything to keep him safe. He’s right on all three counts. I would do anything to protect him, I am his Hairy Beast, and I do belong to him just as he belongs to me and that I don’t let people hurt what’s mine.
#7 Daddy is home.

None of this is bound to a bedroom, dungeon or playroom. When he is with me, no matter where it is, he is home. Everything I am in our house, I am for him when we are together out in the world. I can kiss it and make it better or scare the monsters away with my roar. He’s safe, he’s happy, he’s himself. It could be in the gutter surrounded by cardboard or in a mansion on a hill; the only thing that matters is that he is there with me. He can walk beside me, stand behind me, or lead me to where he wants to go. When Daddy is with him wherever he wants to be is safe and he feels secure there.
________________________________________
In no other context in my life have these been true the way they are between Daddy and his boy. It’s almost like becoming the archetypes, the purest expression of the very idea of what Daddy and son are. He’s my successor, my legacy and my joy. I’m his guardian, his teddy bear and the gardener that helps him grow. I am Daddy and he is my boy. At the end of the Day that is all that matters.




Three things that drive me insane:
First off: My Neck Fur. (Fur Collar)
I have to trust you, tremendously, to allow you near there and I will bring a boy to my neck so he can whimper close to THE most masculine virility sign you can show in public my Golden tuff of Fur popp’n up over the top of my Dad t-shirt, or press him to it so that he can put his lips on the Fur, as he whimpers and get weak knees. The warmth and sensation encourage me but only by my will should it be done. It’s a ‘thing’ that ads to the permission/depth of trust of a moment. Remember This spot (Fur Collar) is the number one spot you search to see if a Man is REALLY Hairy.
Even one or two Hairs could indicate a Furry Fellow (it usually is an accurate measure of Hairiness.)The other spots, of course, are Hairy Arms, Hairy Eye brows, Legs if He’s in shorts. Let’s not forget Hairy wrists that only a sneaky connoisseur in the search for nearest Hairy Male would notice. It’s an instant boner when I see a guy with Hairy wrists.
Second: Auditory Comments. When I ready to blow my Man load, my boy will verbally admire his Dad’s strength and Fur growth. For example he may tell me Oh Daddy you’re so strong or Daddy you’re the Man- got lots of Hair on your Chest, Arms Hairy Legs ( pick one or more (SMILE), just look at you, super Hairy! I do like hearing what my boy likes about his Dad-
Third: My Ear.
A lite sucking/kiss, but mostly hearing the his ragged breath and moan close to me is a major turn on. Once more however: simply due to the way things work, I put you there by holding your head close to mine. There’s many reasons why, but the biggest is while cradling a boy to bring him as close as possible so he feels as much skin to skin contact as I can manage as well as feel how strong I am because it helps him feel safe and that encourages the ‘real moan’ to escape his lips. Pulling him to my ear and then demanding he say what he wants, as he cums, is one of those moments I savor because of the conflict it arouses within him and the reward of the moments when he pushes through and emerges from his shell. It could be as simple as a cry out loud of “Oh DAD my
DAD”! … Dad . . . . Then his melt down as I hold him. Giving all powerful Masculine Virility “energetic” as he whimpers holding on to his Hairy Dad – if ya haven’t done it, there’s nothing like it. BTW almost all subs are subject to this sex play fantasy.
More to come soon. contact me: mgp17438@gmail.com

HE writes back::HEY- I love to give you a "Standing Ovation" as mentioned in your Blog. part one.
Look it up, read and imagine me doing THAT! - to you. As you SLOWLY JO for 45 minutes!WOOF!

I have always wanted to play with a Bear with Black Hair, like you have. I'd spend hours worshiping you Manly Fur. it would give you one of the biggest intense loads you have ever experienced. Please , if you have never had it done to you, it is completely safe I'd LOVE for you to teach some smooth skinned Son/Boy how to service you, and write me how he LOVED doing you. IT might tickle a bit at first but keep your hand on your cock at all times and the "Tickle" will turn into a feeling and awakening of awesome man power as the smooth guy "drinks in" your Manliness.You don't HAVE to prove your maleness, but it WILL put you in touch of appreciation of your own Hairiness, so that you could have a Hairy Orgasmic "Standing Ovation" ,then blow you big Hairy load over your furry stomach and make him eat it off saying "Thank you Daddy" .

Give him the "milkshake" he needs to find his own manpower that he energetically receives from you.

And good God! I wish I could do this to you. I usually top but in YOUR case I make any exception you wanted. PS> I've NEVER been fucked, but the feel of your hairy chest on my back would drive me NUTS! I'd love to have you on top of me, your Furry arms wrapped around my neck, and I'd lick the Fur on your forearms as you cum, I"d reach up to feel your Fur covered Biceps.

Mike
m g p 1 7 4 3 8 @ g m a i l . c o m

if you have any extra photos I'd be honored to beat off to them good buddy PPS: of course, if this is not to your liking, I'm known as an awesome top dog Dad who KNOWS what what he wants and has guys waiting in line to do it with the "RARE Hairy Blond High School Coach"

A handsome Boy! 18 years old

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
My sex ad-

Looking to meet and chat with guys in the southern Cal area-

Ever thought of having sex with a Hairy Blond Dad 17"arms or Coach?.

I am a dominate other Dad and teach What the boys/Sons/Lads want unconsciously is the love and PHYSICAL closeness of the Male role model- This can be true at any age level, So a submissive attitude works, bottoms, desire to imbibe the MANLINESS of Dad. Usually by the Son who wishes he will grow up into the Man image of his Father, someday, Ultimately. This is true even if only in his own mind.

I myself get off on the kid admiring my Blond Hairy muscles on a Dad body-adding to my own sense of manly power.Looking down at my Boy's face, as he plays with his wiener, like I taught him. If my boy/partner wants to get lost and relish he face in his Dad's Man Fur, I'm the Dad that can do that for you.

If you are Hairy Dad/Bear I invite you to experience this kind pleasure. I share /teach these Fur sensitizing techniques.

The point I wanted to make with you- was if you like Hairy guys, YOU might consider using some of the techniques offered, to Dads/men of your choice.

NOTE: Most hairy guys don't even know the extreme light oral nibbling and touching/stroking increases the intensity of their orgasm.

Anyway, at least you'll learn a whole new level of awareness of the power of man Fur. I'm Non smoking, you be too.

I believe that a Dominate real man needs to be worthy of a boy, more so than the other way around. Your submission is your gift to give and there will be a mutual exchange.
if you lik'em Hairy I'm the Dad for you.

Hairy Blonds like Me, are rare and hard to find -Most are smooth, as you must have noticed .

Let me know more after reading the Blog-

Smooth Guys, Short guys 5'7 or less -Go to the front of the line.

Hairy Bears that want to JO with A Ginger/Blond Bear, and learn this new technique of Fur sensitizing, go to the Front of the line too-

I'm a friendly, horny Muscle Bear looking for sexual enjoyment. Love playing Daddy with hot guys 18 years and up - and I love playing with other Dads. Must have clear face pic - or no response.

Read my Blog to see what you can experience. I'd be Glad to teach you all the techniques in FUROLOGY 101. My blog please read it. Blog/article FUROLOGY 101 on this site! Or at the top of my profile page Look for a TAB that says BLOG in blue letters click- learn what FUROLOGY 101 can do for Sons/Boys/Lads ans Hairy Bears too(SMILE)

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Part 10
1GoldenBear shares thoughts on :
Why am I a “Daddy”?
Ownership. It’s not about ‘property’ or being an ‘object’. Being Owned by Daddy is being where you are in a state of bliss because you belong there. You were made to be there, but never forced. It’s your joy to be appreciated by such a figure in your life, and Daddy’s ownership never changes. You’ll always be HIS boy. When I choose a boy to be my son, he should feel honored beyond measure.
I am not some ‘Any Boy will do’ Daddy. I only choose the best, one in a hundred, gets that pleasure because I choose them to be so. The whole world may knock on my door on their knees, but you and you alone are my son, the only one in the world. Everything that it means to be a boy and a Daddy it’s moments like these.
It’s more than tenderness, more than affection. it’s in a kind of safety that truly can only be called ‘home’. There you are safe, protected, truly appreciated for who you are. As a Daddy I am a thousand things for my boy but the only reward I ever need is right here. I get a boy who melts into his happy place. I get quiet noises, little contented sounds, and whispered ‘love you Daddy’. All the sex in the world cannot balance against even one of these moments. What do I get out of being a “Daddy”?
1: Truth.

The biggest difference, aside from the way we play, between a ‘vanilla’ romance and one that is between a Daddy and a boy is Truth. You can be honest, forthcoming and truthful with a partner in a vanilla relationship but it is different between my boy and I. There are no filters, no need to carefully phrase or edit our thoughts.
He doesn’t have to pretend to be anyone around me, I know he’s my boy and he knows it, without question that I am HIS Daddy. There is a depth of honesty within ourselves that leads to the Truth being a cornerstone of the life we’ve built together. I am my truest self with him, from cuddly Daddy bear to rough Dom Daddy; I can change, be different from moment to moment, and he will always know where he stands with me. He has that same freedom: to grow, to change as he needs and to be himself in whatever form that takes.

2: Honesty.

It can be easy to forget just how much fun it is to be ‘kinky’ when there aren’t rules beyond what feels good to enjoy each other. There’s a smile when he asks for what he wants to happen, almost shy, more than a little sexy and definitely impish: it says this is naughty and I love it.
That honesty, about sexual desire and how you want to play it out, is a real joy. No need to hide things away, just share them and let them out into the open. “Spank me Daddy” doesn’t get me hard because I like spanking him. It turns me on to feel his body come alive when he’s being ‘naughty’, horny and happy.



3: Freedom.
I don’t need to control him. The need for power isn’t something I feel nor would seek to satisfy if i did. My pleasure isn’t rooted in a need to control or dominate another person. I use those things as tools, toys in my chest of secrets, to unlock pleasure in my boy and he loves it when I am that way with him. My own arousal comes from feeling him break inside, the incredible release of his true self being able to come out into a safe place and to be happy without fear. It is his freedom to be himself, in an unconditional way, that is part of what makes a Dad/son different from being “lovers”.

4: Belonging

For a boy it’s different when it’s your boyfriend or partner or lover. When it’s your Daddy there is an entirely different feeling. He could be yours 24/7/365 or just for a few hours on the weekend, but that doesn’t change this feeling you get that he’s always been there and always will. For me it’s the same idea. There is a sense of continuation, of what I am being part of him. His place in my life is like my left hand: I’d be lost without it. He knows that what I love about him doesn’t age, gain weight or diminish with time.
I love the ultra-boy within him, the one I’ve seen him grow to become. In return he loves the Daddy that calls him ‘His’. Call it ownership, possession or any other word you want, but it comes down to the solid fit when two pieces lock together making a whole. That is the belonging that a Daddy and his boy feel together.
#5: Power

I don’t mean the cheap thrill of throwing someone around that a bully gets. I mean the real power a True Master, Dominant and Daddy’s Masculine prerogative. The day to day life of studies, work or just dealing with people, can grind you down and make you feel less than you should but as Daddy, I can bring that to an end with just a few simple words.
It doesn’t happen immediately but slowly over time my words become a power to rip that world apart. I can make it all go away and stay away for as long as you are in my arms or presence. They become nothing more than shadows trying to push into the spotlight I shine on my boy. Being able to banish those things, to allow my son to emerge and be himself, is the power that I wield. A lover can make you forget but Daddy drives them away as easily as the monster under the bed.

#6 Being his Beast.

The same thing that guides, nurtures and frees him also protects him. To him I am a juggernaut, a force of nature and an unholy terror to anything that would threaten to harm him. I’m the thing that steps out of their nightmares and reduces them to a simpering child crying for mommy.
He knows that I would never raise my hand in anger; my weapon of choice can’t be blocked by armor of any kind because I exercise my vital powers as a Daddy. Being the monster that loves him, picks him up and carries him to bed to hold him until he sleeps, is part of what being Daddy is for a boy. I don’t ever have to do anything like that.
I may never have to leap into action, but he knows in his heart that Daddy would do anything to keep him safe. He’s right on all three counts. I would do anything to protect him, I am his Hairy Beast, and I do belong to him just as he belongs to me and that I don’t let people hurt what’s mine.
#7 Daddy is home.

None of this is bound to a bedroom, dungeon or playroom. When he is with me, no matter where it is, he is home. Everything I am in our house, I am for him when we are together out in the world. I can kiss it and make it better or scare the monsters away with my roar. He’s safe, he’s happy, he’s himself. It could be in the gutter surrounded by cardboard or in a mansion on a hill; the only thing that matters is that he is there with me. He can walk beside me, stand behind me, or lead me to where he wants to go. When Daddy is with him wherever he wants to be is safe and he feels secure there.
________________________________________
In no other context in my life have these been true the way they are between Daddy and his boy. It’s almost like becoming the archetypes, the purest expression of the very idea of what Daddy and son are. He’s my successor, my legacy and my joy. I’m his guardian, his teddy bear and the gardener that helps him grow. I am Daddy and he is my boy. At the end of the Day that is all that matters.




Three things that drive me insane:
First off: My Neck Fur. (Fur Collar)
I have to trust you, tremendously, to allow you near there and I will bring a boy to my neck so he can whimper close to THE most masculine virility sign you can show in public my Golden tuff of Fur popp’n up over the top of my Dad t-shirt, or press him to it so that he can put his lips on the Fur, as he whimpers and get weak knees. The warmth and sensation encourage me but only by my will should it be done. It’s a ‘thing’ that ads to the permission/depth of trust of a moment. Remember This spot (Fur Collar) is the number one spot you search to see if a Man is REALLY Hairy.
Even one or two Hairs could indicate a Furry Fellow (it usually is an accurate measure of Hairiness.)The other spots, of course, are Hairy Arms, Hairy Eye brows, Legs if He’s in shorts. Let’s not forget Hairy wrists that only a sneaky connoisseur in the search for nearest Hairy Male would notice. It’s an instant boner when I see a guy with Hairy wrists.
Second: Auditory Comments. When I ready to blow my Man load, my boy will verbally admire his Dad’s strength and Fur growth. For example he may tell me Oh Daddy you’re so strong or Daddy you’re the Man- got lots of Hair on your Chest, Arms Hairy Legs ( pick one or more (SMILE), just look at you, super Hairy! I do like hearing what my boy likes about his Dad-
Third: My Ear.
A lite sucking/kiss, but mostly hearing the his ragged breath and moan close to me is a major turn on. Once more however: simply due to the way things work, I put you there by holding your head close to mine. There’s many reasons why, but the biggest is while cradling a boy to bring him as close as possible so he feels as much skin to skin contact as I can manage as well as feel how strong I am because it helps him feel safe and that encourages the ‘real moan’ to escape his lips. Pulling him to my ear and then demanding he say what he wants, as he cums, is one of those moments I savor because of the conflict it arouses within him and the reward of the moments when he pushes through and emerges from his shell. It could be as simple as a cry out loud of “Oh DAD my
DAD”! … Dad . . . . Then his melt down as I hold him. Giving all powerful Masculine Virility “energetic” as he whimpers holding on to his Hairy Dad – if ya haven’t done it, there’s nothing like it. BTW almost all subs are subject to this sex play fantasy.
More to come soon. contact me: mgp17438@gmail.com

HE writes back::HEY- I love to give you a "Standing Ovation" as mentioned in your Blog. part one.
Look it up, read and imagine me doing THAT! - to you. As you SLOWLY JO for 45 minutes!WOOF!

I have always wanted to play with a Bear with Black Hair, like you have. I'd spend hours worshiping you Manly Fur. it would give you one of the biggest intense loads you have ever experienced. Please , if you have never had it done to you, it is completely safe I'd LOVE for you to teach some smooth skinned Son/Boy how to service you, and write me how he LOVED doing you. IT might tickle a bit at first but keep your hand on your cock at all times and the "Tickle" will turn into a feeling and awakening of awesome man power as the smooth guy "drinks in" your Manliness.You don't HAVE to prove your maleness, but it WILL put you in touch of appreciation of your own Hairiness, so that you could have a Hairy Orgasmic "Standing Ovation" ,then blow you big Hairy load over your furry stomach and make him eat it off saying "Thank you Daddy" .

Give him the "milkshake" he needs to find his own manpower that he energetically receives from you.

And good God! I wish I could do this to you. I usually top but in YOUR case I make any exception you wanted. PS> I've NEVER been fucked, but the feel of your hairy chest on my back would drive me NUTS! I'd love to have you on top of me, your Furry arms wrapped around my neck, and I'd lick the Fur on your forearms as you cum, I"d reach up to feel your Fur covered Biceps.

Mike
m g p 1 7 4 3 8 @ g m a i l . c o m

if you have any extra photos I'd be honored to beat off to them good buddy PPS: of course, if this is not to your liking, I'm known as an awesome top dog Dad who KNOWS what what he wants and has guys waiting in line to do it with the "RARE Hairy Blond High School Coach"

A handsome Boy! 18 years old

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
My sex ad-

Looking to meet and chat with guys in the southern Cal area-

Ever thought of having sex with a Hairy Blond Dad 17"arms or Coach?.

I am a dominate other Dad and teach What the boys/Sons/Lads want unconsciously is the love and PHYSICAL closeness of the Male role model- This can be true at any age level, So a submissive attitude works, bottoms, desire to imbibe the MANLINESS of Dad. Usually by the Son who wishes he will grow up into the Man image of his Father, someday, Ultimately. This is true even if only in his own mind.

I myself get off on the kid admiring my Blond Hairy muscles on a Dad body-adding to my own sense of manly power.Looking down at my Boy's face, as he plays with his wiener, like I taught him. If my boy/partner wants to get lost and relish he face in his Dad's Man Fur, I'm the Dad that can do that for you.

If you are Hairy Dad/Bear I invite you to experience this kind pleasure. I share /teach these Fur sensitizing techniques.

The point I wanted to make with you- was if you like Hairy guys, YOU might consider using some of the techniques offered, to Dads/men of your choice.

NOTE: Most hairy guys don't even know the extreme light oral nibbling and touching/stroking increases the intensity of their orgasm.

Anyway, at least you'll learn a whole new level of awareness of the power of man Fur. I'm Non smoking, you be too.

I believe that a Dominate real man needs to be worthy of a boy, more so than the other way around. Your submission is your gift to give and there will be a mutual exchange.
if you lik'em Hairy I'm the Dad for you.

Hairy Blonds like Me, are rare and hard to find -Most are smooth, as you must have noticed .

Let me know more after reading the Blog-

Smooth Guys, Short guys 5'7 or less -Go to the front of the line.

Hairy Bears that want to JO with A Ginger/Blond Bear, and learn this new technique of Fur sensitizing, go to the Front of the line too-

I'm a friendly, horny Muscle Bear looking for sexual enjoyment. Love playing Daddy with hot guys 18 years and up - and I love playing with other Dads. Must have clear face pic - or no response.

Read my Blog to see what you can experience. I'd be Glad to teach you all the techniques in FUROLOGY 101. My blog please read it. Blog/article FUROLOGY 101 on this site! Or at the top of my profile page Look for a TAB that says BLOG in blue letters click- learn what FUROLOGY 101 can do for Sons/Boys/Lads ans Hairy Bears too(SMILE)

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Part 10
1GoldenBear shares thoughts on :
Why am I a “Daddy”?
Ownership. It’s not about ‘property’ or being an ‘object’. Being Owned by Daddy is being where you are in a state of bliss because you belong there. You were made to be there, but never forced. It’s your joy to be appreciated by such a figure in your life, and Daddy’s ownership never changes. You’ll always be HIS boy. When I choose a boy to be my son, he should feel honored beyond measure.
I am not some ‘Any Boy will do’ Daddy. I only choose the best, one in a hundred, gets that pleasure because I choose them to be so. The whole world may knock on my door on their knees, but you and you alone are my son, the only one in the world. Everything that it means to be a boy and a Daddy it’s moments like these.
It’s more than tenderness, more than affection. it’s in a kind of safety that truly can only be called ‘home’. There you are safe, protected, truly appreciated for who you are. As a Daddy I am a thousand things for my boy but the only reward I ever need is right here. I get a boy who melts into his happy place. I get quiet noises, little contented sounds, and whispered ‘love you Daddy’. All the sex in the world cannot balance against even one of these moments. What do I get out of being a “Daddy”?
1: Truth.

The biggest difference, aside from the way we play, between a ‘vanilla’ romance and one that is between a Daddy and a boy is Truth. You can be honest, forthcoming and truthful with a partner in a vanilla relationship but it is different between my boy and I. There are no filters, no need to carefully phrase or edit our thoughts.
He doesn’t have to pretend to be anyone around me, I know he’s my boy and he knows it, without question that I am HIS Daddy. There is a depth of honesty within ourselves that leads to the Truth being a cornerstone of the life we’ve built together. I am my truest self with him, from cuddly Daddy bear to rough Dom Daddy; I can change, be different from moment to moment, and he will always know where he stands with me. He has that same freedom: to grow, to change as he needs and to be himself in whatever form that takes.

2: Honesty.

It can be easy to forget just how much fun it is to be ‘kinky’ when there aren’t rules beyond what feels good to enjoy each other. There’s a smile when he asks for what he wants to happen, almost shy, more than a little sexy and definitely impish: it says this is naughty and I love it.
That honesty, about sexual desire and how you want to play it out, is a real joy. No need to hide things away, just share them and let them out into the open. “Spank me Daddy” doesn’t get me hard because I like spanking him. It turns me on to feel his body come alive when he’s being ‘naughty’, horny and happy.



3: Freedom.
I don’t need to control him. The need for power isn’t something I feel nor would seek to satisfy if i did. My pleasure isn’t rooted in a need to control or dominate another person. I use those things as tools, toys in my chest of secrets, to unlock pleasure in my boy and he loves it when I am that way with him. My own arousal comes from feeling him break inside, the incredible release of his true self being able to come out into a safe place and to be happy without fear. It is his freedom to be himself, in an unconditional way, that is part of what makes a Dad/son different from being “lovers”.

4: Belonging

For a boy it’s different when it’s your boyfriend or partner or lover. When it’s your Daddy there is an entirely different feeling. He could be yours 24/7/365 or just for a few hours on the weekend, but that doesn’t change this feeling you get that he’s always been there and always will. For me it’s the same idea. There is a sense of continuation, of what I am being part of him. His place in my life is like my left hand: I’d be lost without it. He knows that what I love about him doesn’t age, gain weight or diminish with time.
I love the ultra-boy within him, the one I’ve seen him grow to become. In return he loves the Daddy that calls him ‘His’. Call it ownership, possession or any other word you want, but it comes down to the solid fit when two pieces lock together making a whole. That is the belonging that a Daddy and his boy feel together.
#5: Power

I don’t mean the cheap thrill of throwing someone around that a bully gets. I mean the real power a True Master, Dominant and Daddy’s Masculine prerogative. The day to day life of studies, work or just dealing with people, can grind you down and make you feel less than you should but as Daddy, I can bring that to an end with just a few simple words.
It doesn’t happen immediately but slowly over time my words become a power to rip that world apart. I can make it all go away and stay away for as long as you are in my arms or presence. They become nothing more than shadows trying to push into the spotlight I shine on my boy. Being able to banish those things, to allow my son to emerge and be himself, is the power that I wield. A lover can make you forget but Daddy drives them away as easily as the monster under the bed.

#6 Being his Beast.

The same thing that guides, nurtures and frees him also protects him. To him I am a juggernaut, a force of nature and an unholy terror to anything that would threaten to harm him. I’m the thing that steps out of their nightmares and reduces them to a simpering child crying for mommy.
He knows that I would never raise my hand in anger; my weapon of choice can’t be blocked by armor of any kind because I exercise my vital powers as a Daddy. Being the monster that loves him, picks him up and carries him to bed to hold him until he sleeps, is part of what being Daddy is for a boy. I don’t ever have to do anything like that.
I may never have to leap into action, but he knows in his heart that Daddy would do anything to keep him safe. He’s right on all three counts. I would do anything to protect him, I am his Hairy Beast, and I do belong to him just as he belongs to me and that I don’t let people hurt what’s mine.
#7 Daddy is home.

None of this is bound to a bedroom, dungeon or playroom. When he is with me, no matter where it is, he is home. Everything I am in our house, I am for him when we are together out in the world. I can kiss it and make it better or scare the monsters away with my roar. He’s safe, he’s happy, he’s himself. It could be in the gutter surrounded by cardboard or in a mansion on a hill; the only thing that matters is that he is there with me. He can walk beside me, stand behind me, or lead me to where he wants to go. When Daddy is with him wherever he wants to be is safe and he feels secure there.
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In no other context in my life have these been true the way they are between Daddy and his boy. It’s almost like becoming the archetypes, the purest expression of the very idea of what Daddy and son are. He’s my successor, my legacy and my joy. I’m his guardian, his teddy bear and the gardener that helps him grow. I am Daddy and he is my boy. At the end of the Day that is all that matters.




Three things that drive me insane:
First off: My Neck Fur. (Fur Collar)
I have to trust you, tremendously, to allow you near there and I will bring a boy to my neck so he can whimper close to THE most masculine virility sign you can show in public my Golden tuff of Fur popp’n up over the top of my Dad t-shirt, or press him to it so that he can put his lips on the Fur, as he whimpers and get weak knees. The warmth and sensation encourage me but only by my will should it be done. It’s a ‘thing’ that ads to the permission/depth of trust of a moment. Remember This spot (Fur Collar) is the number one spot you search to see if a Man is REALLY Hairy.
Even one or two Hairs could indicate a Furry Fellow (it usually is an accurate measure of Hairiness.)The other spots, of course, are Hairy Arms, Hairy Eye brows, Legs if He’s in shorts. Let’s not forget Hairy wrists that only a sneaky connoisseur in the search for nearest Hairy Male would notice. It’s an instant boner when I see a guy with Hairy wrists.
Second: Auditory Comments. When I ready to blow my Man load, my boy will verbally admire his Dad’s strength


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  • Nice.
    I wish to be trained and coached by you ;)
    hairydody 05/15/2021 05:06 AM
  • Beautiful
    HairySubSon81 05/25/2020 03:20 AM