Gentlemen; I am just an average man making his way in the world like anyone else.

I am HIV+ and have been for 19 years, still going strong and healthy. I am going to be around for a long time.

However I am already in a LTR with my slave 12 years as Master and slave. Yet we do have a very open and poly relationship. I have two pupboys that live with me and two boys that do not.

I am also getting another boy to arrive soon to be living with me as well.

I am a no nonsense man and do not tolerate any one with baggage if you catch my drift. Respect is earned as it is given, this is an old school house of leather and anyone that can not abide by this can move on. I am here to also teach, mentor, guide and consul anyone that wishes to be shown through the countless mazes that encompass the unique world of leather, fetish, BD & SM.

I am who I am a man that enjoys other men for all they are worth. If I wanted some one pretty and cute smelling I would have stayed straight and fucked women but I am a very secure gay man and will always be. I want men, be they my boys or my buddies to be men, to act, feel, look, smell and taste like a man and be proud of his man hood without acting like a real A--H--- about it. Be secure in your own skin and sexuality and true to yourself first and foremost before you seek out others. This is my feeling and what and who I am as a Master & Daddy.

At least if you want to talk then let us talk before jumping into bed. This way no one gets hurt and we can at least talk like civil folk and get to now and understand one another thru good friendship if that is all we can have.

Gentlemen be yourself do not pretend to be something that the general public wants you to be. Be who you are and all that you can be without worrying about what others think and say about you. Always march to the beat of your drum not someone else's and you will truly be appreciated for it moreso in the long run. I am also on some other sites as well: Datedick/Bear 411/Leatherbear/Recon-World Leathermen.

I am in a very open relationship but they do not play with me all the time and if you even just want new friendship that is welcomed as well. If sex does happen after then it does.

Looking forward to meeting new and interesting guys from all over, local, regional, national and international. Like it is said life is to damn short guys we must enjoy it as best we can with good people.

Some of you may have seen on other sites as well i.e.:

Bear411/Recon-worldleathe rman under Ricandaddy

Leatherbear/Datedick under Ricandaddybear

This way guys you make sure you are talking to the same person and have other ways of reaching me.